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Title: A bit silent...
Post by: Pruneau on 11 May 2011, 06:26:18 PM
I've been a bit silent of late, mainly because my wife's mum was very ill, early this week she decided she'd had enough suffering, and asked for a sedation, which was administered on Monday.  She serenely passed away Tuesday evening, after a one year long and painful battle.  She smiled until the end, such a courageous woman.
Title: Re: A bit silent...
Post by: Steve J on 11 May 2011, 06:46:59 PM
My sympathies Rudy. My Mum has been suffering with dementia for over two yearsmand is in such a critical state, that sedation would be the kindest thing. Unfortunately, this is not allowed over here.
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Post by: Leman on 11 May 2011, 07:02:19 PM
Condolences, lost my mum in 2009 and then my dad in March, both in the same hospice. Thank god for morphine!
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Post by: Leon on 11 May 2011, 07:04:03 PM
I'm sorry to hear this Rudy, please pass our condolences to your wife and family.
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Post by: Maenoferren on 11 May 2011, 07:17:21 PM
Condolences for your wife and family
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Post by: nikharwood on 11 May 2011, 07:58:51 PM
My sincere condolences Rudy.
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Post by: Pruneau on 12 May 2011, 06:30:55 AM
Thanks guys, family has been hit hard.  We all have to go through stuff like that, it's a part of life.  We don't have to like it though.  My wife's mum finally has some rest, but the kids were very close, so tough to see them go through this at their age.  I'm almost 50 and I still got my gran...

Sad to hear about the state of your Mum, Steve.  I reckon it's very tough, seeing someone you love in that state, and being unable to help :(
And Dour Puritan, condolences to you as well.  Losing both your parents in such a short period of time must be hard.
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Post by: Nosher on 12 May 2011, 07:37:37 AM
Sorry to hear of your loss. Time is a healer. My own mother passed away 8 years ago and whilst I do not think about her everyday, when I do it brings a smile rather than a sense of loss remembering all the daft things she used to do and say.
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Post by: Duke Speedy of Leighton on 12 May 2011, 08:11:43 AM
Sincere condolences.
Our thoughts are with you.
Remember the great times and how your Mum was at her best, not at the end.
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Post by: Luddite on 12 May 2011, 10:06:19 AM
Condolences old chap.
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Post by: Kassad on 12 May 2011, 03:08:25 PM
My sincere condolences to you and your family sir. I can't speak English so well to say you my personal "simpaty" for your lost. But, finaly, she rest and left you and your wife with a smile.
My Dad was sicked for so many years and the last year of his life was very painfull. Sedation is not allowed in "barbaric" Italy.

PS: I hope I didn't use  wrong words in so delicate discussion. If I wrong somethings or be misunderstood, plase excuse me.
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Post by: Kiwidave on 12 May 2011, 07:40:39 PM
My thoughts are with you Rudi.
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Post by: Pruneau on 12 May 2011, 08:23:49 PM
Thanks guys, it's good to come on here and read the words of sympathy.