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Non-Wargaming Discussion => Chat & News => Topic started by: Steve J on 07 October 2018, 02:36:47 PM

Title: Me and the Big C
Post by: Steve J on 07 October 2018, 02:36:47 PM
Last Monday I was diagnosed with prostate cancer. This was a bit of a surprise, but not a shock, given earlier tests and family history. The good news is that it is mainly low aggressive cells with some medium ones chucked in for fun. It could have been worse. The recommended course of action is to have the offending 'item' removed. Now I'm absolutely fine with this and it is the best long term option .

The real downside is that I will be 'hors de combat' for 4-6 weeks at least and cannot lift anything heavier than a kettle. I'm going to go stir crazy as I like to be doing stuff rather than just sitting around. At least I have to take lots of walks to aid recovery, but I'm not sure our son will be too keen to escort me in during the early days to make sure I'm OK.

If 'every cloud has a silver lining' it is that this has focused my mind on getting lots of parked painting projects finished before the op. The aim is to have my games table permanently set up so that at least I can merrily game away as and when I have the energy. I may try and set up my painting station in our daughters room as she is still at Uni. Again it will give me something to do. Hopefully I will be posting plenty of AARs in the next month or so.

So to finish off, my cancer was caught as a result of my annual PSA test. Now sadly there is no national prostate screening programme for men over 50 yet and no sign of one in the near future. So I would strongly recommend that any forum members 50+, which will be a large proportion I'm sure, pop down to your GP and ask for a test if you are having any problems down below. Better safe than sorry.
Title: Re: Me and the Big C
Post by: Nick the Lemming on 07 October 2018, 02:49:58 PM
Sorry to hear that Steve, but hopefully it sounds like they've caught it early enough not to be a real problem. Hope you get well soon after the op too.
Title: Re: Me and the Big C
Post by: petercooman on 07 October 2018, 02:51:47 PM
Good luck!

Always good when caught early! My father in law got the same break as you, and recovered well!
Title: Re: Me and the Big C
Post by: Shedman on 07 October 2018, 02:57:40 PM
Likewise sorry to hear that

I hope everything goes well and that you have a speedy recovery

Alan
Title: Re: Me and the Big C
Post by: jimduncanuk on 07 October 2018, 03:05:30 PM
I was diagnosed with renal cancer in one kidney, a very aggressive form last November.

If they did nothing I would probably lose the other kidney and much in between fairly soon.

I had emergency surgery the first working day in January and despite a few hiccups on the way I am painting figures and playing games again.

I was not allowed to drive for 6 weeks and couldn't lift anything heavier than a paintbrush for most of that but I got there.

Never give up.

I'm sure you will make a complete recovery.
Title: Re: Me and the Big C
Post by: Norm on 07 October 2018, 03:14:32 PM
Steve, sorry to hear that news. You sound quite pragmatic about things and signed up to what is needed.  We have it in the family at the moment and confidence and spirits are both high and family and friends are important to that. I just wish you a comfortable and speedy recovery once treatment starts. Best Norm.
Title: Re: Me and the Big C
Post by: Techno on 07 October 2018, 03:21:42 PM
Steve.

Having been through 'the tests'.....and having being diagnosed with two of the 'diseases' that give the symptoms of  prostate cancer.....Which showed I wasn't suffering from the 'Big C'.
All I can say, is that I wish you the VERY, VERY best, Matey.

Keep your chin up, 'youth'.

I'm sure that things will work out fine. :)

VERY best wishes -Phil
Title: Re: Me and the Big C
Post by: Duke Speedy of Leighton on 07 October 2018, 03:28:08 PM
Hugs bud. All the best and speedy recovery.
Title: Re: Me and the Big C
Post by: Ithoriel on 07 October 2018, 03:48:55 PM
So sorry to read that Steve. I trust all will go as well as it possibly can.

Pretty sure that posting here doesn't count as "heavier than a kettle" so feel free to keep us updated!
Title: Re: Me and the Big C
Post by: T13A on 07 October 2018, 03:51:25 PM
Hi Steve

Good luck and just a thought, what ever happened to that Market Garden project....

All the very best, Paul
Title: Re: Me and the Big C
Post by: d_Guy on 07 October 2018, 04:40:33 PM
Very sorry to hear this, Steve. My next door neighbor was diagnosed with a more aggressive type five years ago (also caught due to quick rise in PSA). He had the surgery followed by targeted radiation. He is a great outdoorsman and no real "inside: hobbies - he was bored silly for about three months but has made a full recovery and is the picture of health. Get well, mate (and prayers to you).

Bill
Title: Re: Me and the Big C
Post by: fsn on 07 October 2018, 05:16:43 PM
All the very best wishes.
Title: Re: Me and the Big C
Post by: Westmarcher on 07 October 2018, 07:03:23 PM
Sorry to read this, Steve. Take heart - treatment is so much better nowadays so, unlike some other cancers, at least you get a fighting chance with this one (e.g., two acquaintances of mine who have had this have both recovered). All the best.
Title: Re: Me and the Big C
Post by: Steve J on 07 October 2018, 08:08:56 PM
Hi Chaps,
thanks for all the kind words :). The prognosis is good and I'm pretty damned positive about the whole thing, with even large does of black humour thrown in :D. So fingers crossed I should make a full recovery. Naturally I'll keep you all updated.

Paul, my Market Garden project had stalled, which is fairly typical for me. However with my enforced rest, I hope to get this back on track. At least some of the German armour is getting finished, with just the small matter of the American Airborne and the Paras to base and paint.
Title: Re: Me and the Big C
Post by: Matt J on 07 October 2018, 09:01:56 PM
Sorry to hear this Steve, positive mental attitude is the key and you seem to have this in spades!
Wish you all the best.
Title: Re: Me and the Big C
Post by: sunjester on 07 October 2018, 10:17:51 PM
Sorry at your news, but at least it was caught early. Good luck.
Title: Re: Me and the Big C
Post by: paulr on 07 October 2018, 10:58:28 PM
Sorry to hear the news, but as you say it will help you make progress on some projects ;)
Title: Re: Me and the Big C
Post by: Maenoferren on 08 October 2018, 10:31:17 AM
Sorry to hear the news, hoping everything is going to plan and that you have a speedy recovery
Title: Re: Me and the Big C
Post by: FierceKitty on 08 October 2018, 10:40:50 AM
Is it any comfort to sufferers that a major supermarket chain in this country calls itself "Big C" and sees nothing incongruous in the name?
Title: Re: Me and the Big C
Post by: Leon on 08 October 2018, 11:28:29 AM
So sorry to hear this Steve, but glad that they've got it early and everything should be OK.  It's definitely not the best way of focussing the mind but at least you'll get some painting done!
Title: Re: Me and the Big C
Post by: Womble67 on 08 October 2018, 12:22:39 PM
I hope everything goes ok and you have a speedy recovery

Take care

Andy
Title: Re: Me and the Big C
Post by: Steve J on 08 October 2018, 01:01:21 PM
Thanks once again chaps :)